All My Trips are Getting Cancelled- Murphy is Chasing Me!

by Mridula on February 23, 2013

in Musing

It has been quite sometime since I traveled. OK it is has been quite sometime since I traveled in my dictionary. I did go out in January to Alwar but I get extremely restless if I do not get out once a month. February is about to end and there is no trip in site. Let me try and rephrase this, there were a lot of trips in sight but one by one all of them got cancelled. Some got cancelled because of reasons beyond control, one got cancelled due to my own stupidity and two got cancelled even when it was not my fault.

I was supposed to travel to Kashmir in February but on the Thursday I was supposed to travel, the previous Saturday Afzal Guru was hanged! For me taking leaves is not easy particularly if it involves shifting a class. I managed to do all that only to find I was not traveling in the end. This was the trip where situations were beyond anyone’s control.

http://blogs.gonomad.com/traveltalesfromindia/files/2013/02/With-Kids-at-Lakshman-Sagar-Rajasthan.jpg

My Holiday Smile- With Kids at Lakshman Sagar, Rajasthan

So I tried to book a trip on my own. I decided my daughter and I were going to go to Jaipur for a short break. I booked the tickets with IRCTC and booked a hotel too. One day later I realized that on the dates I booked my tickets, I was required at work on that Saturday. I hardly ever work on Saturdays and in my enthusiasm to travel I completely forgot! I cancelled all the tickets. The hotel was nice they only do a notional booking and charge your card on arrival. IRCTC also refunded the money automatically. This was my stupidity.

Then there was a trip planned to Deoria Tal with my trusted guide in Uttarakhand for end of March. I was actually most excited about this one, it has been on my agenda for long. But then he called to say that there was a puja at the same dates at his home. As soon as I heard the word puja I knew the case was lost. This was probably divine intervention and who am I to question it?

Then I had a brain wave. I thought half my hassles are because of being a solo women traveler in India. So I would go abroad. With my friend Lakshmi’s advice I zeroed on Hong Kong. I asked my dad if I should go, it would be expensive and he said you should go. I asked my husband if I should go and he said please go. I asked my sister if I should go and she said do go. I asked my nephews if I should go and they reminded me how much I spent for them on a playstation. One of them added, “Why do you hesitate to spend on yourself?You should go.” I asked a friend if I should go and he said no one can stop you if you put your mind to it! But he was wrong. I even talked to Avanish who had recently been to Hong Kong and Macau. In the end I was excited and I decided to do my tickets.

So out came the credit card and I looked at the lowest fare, went to the airline website and tried to book. On the first try nothing happened. No ticket was booked nor was my card charged. So I tried again, same result. On the third attempt my card was charged and no ticket was issued. I waited for a while thinking I will get some automated message. It was not to be. It was by now quite late at night and I was really amazed. So many attempts to travel and still a naught!

Once I started talking to the call center my woes increased. They wanted me to write a mail to get a refund even when no ticket had been issued. Even IRCTC manages to issue an automatic refund if a transaction goes wrong. I can go on and on about this but to cut a long story short, I had no tickets to Hong Kong and I had a charge on my card. I am still waiting for that charge to get reversed though I have a receipt now which says they have authorized a refund.

It was then I realized that all my theories  were wrong. It is Murphy that is chasing me. I sincerely have had enough. I do seriously hope he will now find someone else to chase.

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{ 10 comments… read them below or add one }

Mridula February 27, 2013 at 10:01 pm

Shooting Star hope you get out soon.

Yes Tushar.

Sayali :D Hope it will not go anywhere near you.

Thanks Himanshu things are looking a tad better.

Shrinidhi I too hope so.

Anu I got the refund. And might travel as well :D Can’t ask for more at the moment.

Dheeraj I don’t know I feel safer with a trusted guide not so much about the route but in general.

Thanks Niranjan looks like it may happen sooner rather than later.

Arum looks like you were right.

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arumugameaswar February 24, 2013 at 5:22 pm

Mridula, it’s only a short break. you’ll soon get along.

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Niranjan February 24, 2013 at 1:33 pm

It happens. Murphy keeps chasing all. Am sure you are in for an awesome journey shortly.

http://rajniranjandas.blogspot.in/

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Dheeraj Sharma February 24, 2013 at 9:17 am

Aahh… I thought there must be some reason for canceling that one when you were so excited. But, I feel you can go to Deoria Tal without the guide too. It is Tungnath that might create some problems without guide otherwise Deoria Tal is totally fine to go. It is just a 1 Hr hike from Sari Village with path laid all the way upto Deoria Tal

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Anuradha Shankar February 24, 2013 at 8:49 am

dont worry, Mridula. Something will turn up and u might be travelling more than expected by next month! btw, hope u get the refund soon!

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Shrinidhi Hande February 24, 2013 at 4:54 am

2013 still has 10 more months… lots of potential travel to make up for these

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Himanshu February 24, 2013 at 2:06 am

Oh… That’s so sad. Don’t give up.

Cheers!
Himanshu Nagpal | Being Traveler

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sayali February 24, 2013 at 1:06 am

Got to know about “Murphy’s law”!!!
;)
:)

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Tushar February 23, 2013 at 11:46 pm

Traveling outside ones own city/town is known as travel?

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shooting star February 23, 2013 at 11:01 pm

hahha….totally get when you say not travelled in some time as per dictionary!!…

my friends always say I travel so much but i always say in my dictionary…its very less!!!….

i have been wanting to travel all of Jan and Feb, but my work and then the hubby’s have kept me from doing that…… :(

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